I'm mostly looking for a man who is intelligent, open minded, and has a good personality. Please be attracted to BBWs (Yes, I am a big girl.) I'm happy to send photos once you've contacted me :) I have figured out that I would like someone that I can see on a long term basis. I don't want a string of one night stands. I'd like to have a boyfriend rather than a friend with benefits. BTW, I have lost 100lbs and i'm still losing. Saying this here because after losing so much, my body has really changed. Things don't snap back when you're my age. Just Google weight loss with loose skin. Also. as much as i love winks, maybe i could score some attention from some people who are closer to where i live ? I love to cook and I'd be happy to go skinny dipping, if you happen to know of a place we could do it. hehe I love music, movies, books, and animals. I have done the swinging thing in the past and had fun with that. I am looking for one on one, now. However, I am open to fantasies and even more so once we know each other and I feel safe and comfortable enough. I'm looking for someone to spend time with. I need more than just wham bam thank you ma'am. I miss sex, don't get me wrong, but I miss cuddling, too. I love skin to skin contact. Please have a place that we can go to, because I am living with my husband. I am VERY much NOT looking for just sex. Can't wait to hear from you!